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***QUESTION***
HER: "If you think I'm going to sleep with you, after you've spent the last couple of hours teasing and taking the mickey, think again!"
ME: No answer, just a slight smile... (Six months ago, SuperWuss would've said "But honey, please... I was only kidding!")
One hour later, in bed: HER: "I don't want to just be another one in your harem, you know!" ME: No answer, just another slight smile, and a kiss on the neck. (Six months ago, SuperWuss would've said "But honey, you know I really really respect you and love you....")
Five minutes later, her legs are locked around my waist:-)
You know Dave, I'm in an incredibly funny space right now: I am CONSTANTLY saying to myself "Jeez... Did I just get away with saying/doing THAT???" LOL I'm having the time of my life, and it's all thanks to you. I'd like to meet you in person one day, and shake your hand!
Anyway, my question: Every guy's been in this situation, you're walking out somewhere with a beautiful girl, and some other guy (or guys) makes a whistle or 'Hey baby' comment to your girl... What's a good C+F response to this? What I'm concerned about is using the situation to make the girl MORE attracted to ME, rather than putting down the guy. Part of me wants to tell the guy to butt out and mind his own business/get his own girl etc. but I'm aware that not only will this possibly make me look like an insecure, jealous asshole, but could also get me into a potentially dangerous situation that would ruin the good evening I have planned. On the other hand, I worry that no response at all may look like I'm a mouse not a man! I thought about saying to my girl "Damn! I wish these gays would just leave me alone!", making out it was ME the guy was hitting on, but I'm not sure if I want to put the idea I'm gay into her mind LOL. What do you think?
regards,
R London UK
» MY COMMENTS:
GREAT question.
Well, remember, every situation is an opportunity to INCREASE THE ATTRACTION.
These are great opportunities to position yourself in her mind in a way that sets you apart from all other guys.
What would most guys do in this situation?
1. Get insecure and jealous.
2. Start a fight.
3. Pull the woman closer.
4. Act intimidated.
Your idea is great... making a joke out of it by suggesting that the guy is trying to pick you up.
Another idea is to just keep walking without even paying notice to it, then a moment later commenting "Don't you just love the way typical guys act? Classy, isn't it?"
This, in effect, lumps other guys into a group and sets you apart from it.
By not reacting at all to other men's advances, you also show that you're not easily upset.
I think that if you let things upset you, that you open yourself to manipulative behaviors that involve getting you upset.
Much better to smile and not let things get to you... because the irony of it is that if you let things get to you, they will.